Born and raised in Southern California. Graduated from Loyola Marymount University in Los Angeles with a degree in Communications. In 1983, while working for the same company, Hank met his future husband, Antonio. They moved to the Land of Enchantment in 1986, where they celebrated 40 years of life together until Antonio died in September 2023 from Parkinson’s disease complications.  

Hank spent over 35 years as an internationally recognized authority and spokesman on men healing from sexual assault, abuse and trauma.  At conferences, he is often introduced as a pioneer male survivor spokesman for which he is proud to accept.  Today Hank has also begun sharing his experiences of serving as full-time carepartner to a spouse living with chronic health issues, managing grief after death of a spouse, and new, unbelievable discoveries of signs and messages from the after-life.

Hank is a man of invaluable healing knowledge and wisdom as well as a man of many creative talents. He appreciates receiving communications and messages from those who are moved to contact him.