Hank Estrada
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A Pioneer Spokesman in the Field of Male Victimization and Recovery
Advocate for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse Since 1985
Advocate for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse Since 1985
Hank Estrada is an acclaimed author, activist, and survivor dedicated to exposing sexual abuse, serving as a remarkable resource for male victims of sexual trauma and those who love them. In his powerful memoir, UnHoly Communion, Hank reveals his journey of abuse, trauma, and resilience, inspiring survivors worldwide to share their stories and embark on their own healing journey. Beyond his advocacy work, Hank continues the paranormal legacy of his late husband, Antonio R. Garcez, through Red Rabbit Press, promoting his Unforgettable Ghost Story Interviews book series.
Hank's Mission: As an author and spokesman, I use my creative passions to advocate for those whose voices have been silenced. My work focuses on themes of healing, resilience, and transformation. I've dedicated my career to speaking out against domestic violence and sexual victimization and supporting survivors on their path to healing.
UnHoly Communion
UnHoly Communion
A powerful memoir of abuse, resilience, and healing.
UnHoly Communion is a shocking, candid account of one man’s battle with overcoming childhood domestic violence, incest, and while attending university, assaults by a sexual predator priest. Read the author’s first-hand accounts of how some in his family, in society as well as the Catholic Church, continued to shamefully protect known sexual predators while looking the other way regardless of the detailed evidence presented.
In this heart-wrenching memoir, Estrada describes his road to hell and back as he lived through years of devastating sexual scandals and found the courage to persevere. This inspiring story of determination and resilience is for anyone who has struggled with any type of childhood victimization, adult exploitation, or the unspeakable sex crimes of the once-trusted clergy of the Church. Estrada connects with the reader and shows us how hope, peace and love can be found if you don’t give up.
Supporting Survivors of Abuse
Supporting Survivors of Abuse
Hank encourages victims/survivors to tell someone, about who is assaulting them or that this has happened to them. Healing can only begin when you tell someone what has happened to you.
Oprah's "200 Men Stand Together"
Oprah's "200 Men Stand Together"
Hank was one of the 200 invited male survivor guests to appear on the landmark Oprah show along with Tyler Perry at Harpo Studios in Chicago in 2010. The two-part show aired on November 5 and 12, 2010.
To My Survivor Brothers...
If you’re going to heal from your abuse trauma, you’re going to have to tell what happened to you. By telling who assaulted you, you can begin to give up feeling responsible for it and free yourself from living in shame or guilt. Healing begins when you learn to accept the fact that what happened to you was NOT your fault. You were the target of an abusive predator and you did whatever this perpetrator directed or groomed you to do.
You also need to pay attention to what your "gut" says when you encounter uncomfortable or inappropriate behavior from a “professional” counselor claiming experience helping male survivors recover. If this person makes you feel uncomfortable, you need to end the connection and try another resource.
I am encouraged by the number of men and women who have contacted me with words of appreciation and support for sharing my life’s healing journey. I never expected that my humiliating disclosure of being victimized would help so many others commit to healing and living healthier lives. Their words are my greatest source of strength and courage to continue moving forward.
Thank you for being here.
~ Hank
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